(First published in Thai in a magazine as an assignment in the journalism class in 2017, Rewrote in 2020 during quarantine.)

The Transformation of ‘SEX’: How Technology Redefines Our Authentic Human Experience

va buranakarn
2 min readApr 23, 2020

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Internet sex, Cybersex, Sexting, Phone sex, Virtual sex, and so on.., basically just sex during quarantine and the age of the COVID-19 pandemic.

In exploring the transformation of sex, it’s essential first to ask: What is sex? Traditionally, sexual intercourse is defined as vaginal penetration for sexual satisfaction. This definition, though, is increasingly seen as heteronormative. Modern perspectives challenge this narrow view, and definitions have evolved to encompass a broader range of sexual activities, including anal and oral intercourse.

As technology has become integral to our daily lives, particularly during the COVID-19 quarantine, it has significantly reshaped our understanding of sex. We have been transformed by this technology, often without realizing it. The Internet, for instance, has revolutionized how we engage in sexual activities, giving rise to phenomena like cybersex, sexting, and virtual sex.

To understand this transformation, we can draw on Martin Heidegger’s concept of “Enframing” from his essay, “The Question Concerning Technology.” Heidegger suggests that technology is more than just a means to an end; it fundamentally shapes our perception and existence. Enframing, or ‘Gestell’ in German, refers to how technology organizes and presents the world to us, shaping our interactions and experiences in profound ways.

Technology acts not just as a tool but as a transformative force that shapes our embodied existence. Digital technologies, which once seemed merely tools, now play an active role in our lives, influencing how we engage with one another. For example, we interact with technology in ways that dictate how we perform tasks, like typing on a laptop, which becomes a part of our everyday experience.

This technological influence extends to our sexuality. Concepts such as virtual sex and VR sex challenge traditional notions of physical intimacy. Virtual sex, for instance, involves interacting in a digital space without physical touch, yet it can still create a sense of intimacy and connection. The virtual realm offers a new way to experience and express sexuality, where the physical presence is replaced by digital interaction.

Virtual reality sex further blurs these boundaries. With VR, we can engage in simulated sexual experiences that feel physically real, despite being virtual. This technology presents an explicit challenge to traditional notions of sexual intercourse, pushing us to rethink what constitutes authentic sexual experience.

In summary, technology has already transformed our understanding of sex. It reshapes how we experience and define sexual intimacy. As we continue to explore these new concepts and technologies, it is crucial to question and redefine the essence of sexual intercourse in the digital age.

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va buranakarn
va buranakarn

Written by va buranakarn

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